Well, as you all know, i have been a fairly active member of these forums and a die hard player of PSO (im still looking for my Yas 9k off and on). I havent played PSO for about half a month due to the fact that the one friend me and my sister used to play with has turned her life into **** because of a slut she met. This person has convinced her to shoplift, convincing her to try being a lesbian (wouldnt be so bad if she didnt dress like she did, ill be serious from this point on lol), and the worst of all, trying most drugs. We have talked to her, she wants to try it all, and we cant stop her. My sister is freaking out, and I do what i usually do, i shrug it off. People have always asked me how i can do that in the most tearfull of times, and i say one thing "I alreadly knew it was going to happen." The reason for this is simple, and i feel i can trust most of you with one last secret before my possible departure, most people have the ordinary dream, i dont. I have been able to see things i shouldnt, to see death, destruction, miracles, and crime. I have been able to see things BEFORE they happen, I have been given this curse from God to see into the future, either 3 years before it happens or 1 day. The catch to this is i see but a fragment, a fragment embedded in my memory for all eternity, a fragment i cannot get rid of no matter how hard i try. This has caused me to be depressed, and with that comes a state of being "numb" to any kind of emotion, love, hate, sorrow, happiness, anything. I saw my grandfathers death, and my mom doing CPR, i saw my dad taking me to various places, i saw christmases, i saw my swim team's trip to Vancouver, but what suprises me yet, is the things that havent happened, me rebreaking my finger, and the worst of all, i have seen my own death, on multiple occasion. I am a believer in more than anything but God, the Chaos Theory. The theory that any and every action has an effect on anything or everything anywhere in the universe, the flapping of a butterflies wings causing a tornado in Colorado, a kid jumping into the water causing an earthquake in China. Anything is possible, i know that better than anyone. I have told no one about this, and i trust you to have the dignity not to mock me, and the trust to believe me. This is no lie, this is nothing out of a book, this is my life.
And to the non believers, you have no proof this cant happen.
1st show your friend the right way and you know that once she tries it will be even harder to overcome it, don't give up now, she needs you even if she doesn't want.
2nd, no need to be depressed, that won't solve anything, the only to solve is to do something about it, then you won't have any depression reasons
3rd, if you can predict that stuff, use it, if things are bad, don't let them happen
and finally, after that, return to play pso with your friends and have fun.
Hey man, (this sounds stupid, I know) but have you tried showing her the consequences of that stuff?
The drugs/slut thing, you should take her somewhere where theres lots of crackheads and hookers and show her that thats what'll happen to her if she continues the way she is...
For the shoplifting, you should wait til she just steals something small and report her. She'll probably either get a warning or a night in the slammer. Either way, it'll most likely scare her into not doing it anymore.
And for the foresight, I have no idea... The only thing I can think of is that it's some kind of reverse Deja Vu...
Link777 Wrote:Hey man, (this sounds stupid, I know) but have you tried showing her the consequences of that stuff?
The drugs/slut thing, you should take her somewhere where theres lots of crackheads and hookers and show her that thats what'll happen to her if she continues the way she is...
For the shoplifting, you should wait til she just steals something small and report her. She'll probably either get a warning or a night in the slammer. Either way, it'll most likely scare her into not doing it anymore.
And for the foresight, I have no idea... The only thing I can think of is that it's some kind of reverse Deja Vu...
she has seen the penalties for everything, drugs bring addiction and a body riddled with disease and scars, theft brings jail, sex brings unwanted children, she most steals from the local Fred Meyer, a place both me and a friend are thinking of working at (due to the fact its by a gym and we really need to get in shape, him more than me)
She doesnt seem to care about what happens as long as she is fine for the time being
What i am thinking of doing, is giving her a good scare, i am gonna get my drivers license soon (since i waited to get my permit i can get it now w/o taking lessons, but i just need to take a few to get my full license =3) and then take her down to the worst part of seattle and give her a choice, jump out now and get a kickstart on the future or clean her act up
now that's a radical move.....i beleive it depends on her, but before you do that, try and convince her, someone has to put order into her mind.
Man thats really sucks. Well i agree with the other you really should just talk to her, say anything that would scare her about whats she doing. Maybe you can kick her of in Seattle, but your mom and dad are going to get mad at you. But if you do that she going to call her mom or dad or friends to pick her up. Or you just can try to let your sister to play PSO and she will begin to realize that playing PSO with her friend is much better then begin weird.
Now for her friend just say "Hey you i'm going to eat you!!!"
Oh yeah, don't leave this place!!! We will be lonely with out you.......:'(
Do what you have to do to snap her out of it. Try starting an intervention or take her to someplace that can take care of her, like a clinic. The longer she's hooked on the stuff the harder it will be to get her off it. Sometimes we have to give up the things we love(PSO) to do the right thing. Just do your best that's all you can do. Hope to see you back on here soon.
Liu Bei Wrote:We will be lonely with out you.......:'(
It already is :'(
i love you guys, dont all of you leave on me!
You cant save everyone. Good luck rregardless.
If you decided to leave just remember..
you have friends to come back to =)