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If someone can help me, please, talk to me. I'm soo sad. I don't know what 2 do with my life...


thx...

Get a career you're interested in. Find a hobby you like.

Go to school and pick up a trade or something along those lines

athletics, play baseball or i eat you.


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The problem is that my father and my brothers are unemployed for almost an year and i need to move to a city 2000 miles away to live with the person i love. But i am the only way my family can have a little money now. Our house is rented. I need to pay for my college... And my boyfriend can´t wait too long... I feel that i'm n a crossroad... Do i help my family and loose the love of my life or do i leave my family by themselves and go to live my life? I'm almost 25 years old. My story is so weird. Sorry if my english is not too good. I wish i could tell you the entire story perfectly...

Sorry if your English isn't too good? Looked pretty perfecto to me!

I'd say move away, stay with your love, if you're sure about it. Then that'll really motivate your family to get a job or two! They can't keep scrounging off you all your life...

That is what my soul tells me to do all the time. I need to break this circle my family is in. Every time is the same thing: win everything-loose everything-win everything again-loose everything again too... My brothers are 23, 20 and 16 years old. They are pretty grown up for work, i think. I know that the economic situation in Brazil sucks, but i'm trying to do my best. Isn't it enough just to be gay in the middle of people that doesn't understand this? My family accepts me completely. But i need to turn the page in my life. I have dreams of my own! i have to fight for them. One thing that i've never been in my whole life is to be egotistical... I need to be it just a little now... for my own good, don't you aggree with me?

Lokin Modar Wrote:That is what my soul tells me to do all the time. I need to break this circle my family is in. Every time is the same thing: win everything-loose everything-win everything again-loose everything again too... My brothers are 23, 20 and 16 years old. They are pretty grown up for work, i think. I know that the economic situation in Brazil sucks, but i'm trying to do my best. Isn't it enough just to be gay in the middle of people that doesn't understand this? My family accepts me completely. But i need to turn the page in my life. I have dreams of my own! i have to fight for them. One thing that i've never been in my whole life is to be egotistical... I need to be it just a little now... for my own good, don't you aggree with me?

go with the love, you'll most likely be happier anyway. It is not your fault that your family is not successful, they obviously didn't work very hard to get where they are in life and that is not your fault. Just because your family isn't successful doesn't mean that they should have to take you down with 'em.

Lokin Modar Wrote:The problem is that my father and my brothers are unemployed for almost an year and i need to move to a city 2000 miles away to live with the person i love. But i am the only way my family can have a little money now. Our house is rented. I need to pay for my college... And my boyfriend can´t wait too long... I feel that i'm n a crossroad... Do i help my family and loose the love of my life or do i leave my family by themselves and go to live my life? I'm almost 25 years old. My story is so weird. Sorry if my english is not too good. I wish i could tell you the entire story perfectly...

Tell them to get jobs. You cant support your family forever, go live with the person you love. If you dont you'll regret it for the rest of your life.

Phantom_RAcast Wrote:Tell them to get jobs. You cant support your family forever, go live with the person you love. If you dont you'll regret it for the rest of your life.

That's what comes in my mind all the time... Thanks folks for the hints... I need and i will be happy!