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I cant help but think it is my fault - decswxaqz - 28-02-2005
Sorry to hear that.
"You can't see the ends to all means"
You don't know what this experience will do for you. I know it sounds kinda harsh and unsympathetic but some good things might come out of this. You will probably try to better yourself in memory of this person?
When I didn't do as well as planned in my exams as hoped, I was gutted. I cried in fact. But because I failed, I went to a different uni. And if it wasn't for this, I wouldn't have met my girlfriend. So as yet another saying goes "Every cloud has a silver lining".
You should try to look at this in a positive way and try to honour your friends death and not blame it on yourself. Chin up
I cant help but think it is my fault - Teh EkwEE - 28-02-2005
Yes exactly, Decs has a point.
*taunting begins* Decs has a girlfriend, Decs has a girl friend that he makes sweet love to in the bed at his own liesure...............Oh hell, Teh EkwEE has made himself feel bad :'(
I cant help but think it is my fault - misterbud - 01-03-2005
... Please, this is a thread honoring somone's death. Don't disgrace it by taunting decs here.
Jay, I am truly sorry for your loss, but you need to get your head up, and look to honor him. If he were still alive, he wouldn't want you to sit there moping for him, he would want you to live your life to the fullest.
I cant help but think it is my fault - Teh EkwEE - 01-03-2005
I was just trying to make lil' Jay feel better.
I cant help but think it is my fault - Double Edge - 01-03-2005
Feeling as though such an event taking place is your fault is not how you should be feeling. As Judgment said..there is no way you could have predicted that happening. I'm sorry that this happened - but it is not your fault.
I cant help but think it is my fault - Sheik - 01-03-2005
I'm sorry to hear that.
Even when life gets you down you look on the bright side of things. Although your friend has tragically passed on, remember that you will one day meet again as well as other people you have lost.
I cant help but think it is my fault - Jay - 01-03-2005
decswxaqz Wrote:Sorry to hear that.ok dec i took ur advice and and i have found something i am good at and i can let my anger oy Kick Boxing so i guess every cloud has got a sliver lineing thanks dec.
"You can't see the ends to all means"
You don't know what this experience will do for you. I know it sounds kinda harsh and unsympathetic but some good things might come out of this. You will probably try to better yourself in memory of this person?
When I didn't do as well as planned in my exams as hoped, I was gutted. I cried in fact. But because I failed, I went to a different uni. And if it wasn't for this, I wouldn't have met my girlfriend. So as yet another saying goes "Every cloud has a silver lining".
You should try to look at this in a positive way and try to honour your friends death and not blame it on yourself. Chin up
I cant help but think it is my fault - Teh EkwEE - 04-03-2005
Looks at Jay's sig..........:'(
SO sad. But I'm glad you found something to remember him by........like kick boxing.
I cant help but think it is my fault - Deadly Zero - 04-03-2005
I feel like crying for you cuz same thing happened to me. I was walking with Ashley (Yes he was a guy) and we were walking home from a school science fair and it was getting dark so we started running to get home faster and we got to a street that was all dark and we just started crossing it when we got to the other side ashley noticed he dropped his glasses so i said id get them for him since he cant see very well but he said no and went and got his glasses when he did find them i was looking to see what time it was when he gets hit by a drunk driver and i just sat there and watched him hit the ground and i got pissed so i start throwing little rocks at the car and i think i broke the windsheild in the back.I called the cops about 10 minutes later the ambulance arrives and then i call up his parents and told them what had happened. I sat by his side as long as theyd let me and just cryed i didnt eat for like 4 days cuz of the depression i felt. but when i finally gathered enough guts to go back to school and face the world again i only thought of one thing and thats what ashley said a day earlier when my Girl freind broke up with me. he said "Life goes on and one of the lessons in life is you have to learn how to lose someone or something you love and that you are very close to." he said this a day before he got hit and all i thought about for the next few months were some of his last words. this happened bout a year ago and i even drew a pic of him and have a pic from when we first met 3 years ago.
Even now i break down for no reason and cry about what happened but like a great freind once said the hardest lesson in lfe is learning to lose some one or something you love. now i feel like crying again
I cant help but think it is my fault - Teh EkwEE - 04-03-2005
:'( Dude,now you're gonna' make me cry. I'm thinking about my kittie again. :'( :'(