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I need help... - adrina_kellers - 13-12-2006
There is this girl I really like... and I mean really Like. But i can't bring anything up to ask her out. What should I do???
I need help... - nomercy - 13-12-2006
Hav you talked to her? Like, as friends? Because you need to know her quite a bit better than just being a girl in your class that you fancy. The best thing to do is just talk to her.
I need help... - Judgment - 13-12-2006
"Hey bebeh -insert cheesy pickup line here-" :B
Just find any excuse to talk to her then once you have been talking for a while ask if she would like to go do something with you sometime.
I need help... - Anjiru - 13-12-2006
talk to her as much as possible, but dont get too like creepy about it obviously
and as judgement said ask if she wants to ahng out one time after youve been talking for a while, hang out, make it clear that you like her but not too like intense... then keep hanging out with her, youll know if shes interested or not, and if you think shes interested and you think she really likes you then ask her outtt
I need help... - Faulkie - 13-12-2006
Boy have I been in this situation before?
Ok first of all you gotta be friends. For anything to work, you need to get on as well as the very best as friends. So you can't have any major personality clashes.
Are you good friends with her now?
I need help... - Kitsadoodles - 13-12-2006
Yeah, what you really have to do is keep up your friendship/relationship until it gets so comfortable that you have the courage to move on to something more serious! It'll all come together if you just keep on making a better relationship with this special girl!
I need help... - pink - 14-12-2006
There's one important thing too... be very careful not to stumble and make yourself look like a dork often... that only appeals to some girls. They'd think it's cute. XD Okay... so I know that advice kinda conflicts... so uhh... yeah... I'm not very good with relationships myself...
As everyone's been saying, make sure to get a stable friendship going first, let it bloom a bit, then work up the courage to ask her out on an actual date.
I'd use a couple of my own relationships as examples but uhh... there's one particular little detail about those that causes me to be a bit unwilling to share.
So uhh... good luck!
I need help... - Faulkie - 14-12-2006
Quote:there's one particular little detail about those that causes me to be a bit unwilling to shareLet the speculation begin.
Haha my girlfriend acknowleges and embraces my nerdishness. The point is, she's gotta like you for you, so don't put on an act.
And if you happen to be a complete loser (like me), then your special girl has to accept that. Haha I love being a nerd.
I need help... - pink - 14-12-2006
Nothing wrong with being a nerd at all. XD
One last tip I can think of... make sure that if you're getting into a relationship with someone, they're in it for you, your personality, not just for your looks... women and men are both guilty of being extremely shallow and only going after looks, which I find ridiculous.
Don't get into relationships just because you think someone's pretty, cause relationships like those tend to work a VERY MINIMAL amount of the time.
I need help... - Shade - 14-12-2006
lol... i doubt its a girl in his class... me and adrina r at an all boys school... so we have to look elsewhere XD... dont worry bowt bein a nerd ade... im a nerd and now have a gf of 3 and a half months... (ironically as soon as i stopped looking)
Try to find me at school.. (porobably in the library, art block, or dt rooms
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