May i confide in you?

[Jimbo1990]

The past few weeks have been really hard, knowing that my dog is getting close to the end of his career, today my friend has learned she has breast cancer (i've known her for well over 12 years so we're real close) and i'm currently having to take some tests because my doctor suspects that i may be infertile, so i wanna let you guys'n'gals know that if i don't post on here often you now know why.

[K_I_R_E_E_K]

Sorry to hear that, it seems things aren't easy on your side, we understand if you can't post, this is a forum, this is recreation, if you have a life then take care of it 1st.

Is she friend going to be okay, are you gonna be okay if the bad news come? :'(

[Jimbo1990]

well she's from a well-off family so she's able to get the medical attention that she needs. and she's knows that i'm there for her and so are all of her mates so she's gonna go through with the kemo. as for me i'm just hoping that my doctors hunch about my fertility is just that just a hunch we're expecting test results at the end of the week. and my dog sam will hopefully make it past his 16th birthday in january. he's still able to jump into chairs so we're hoping he's got a good while left in him.

[Liu Bei]

Ohhh man.....thats sucks! I hope nothing wrong with you, and i hope your friend ok too. When the test comes back... I hope your ok! If not....we all here for you!

[Mirinee]

Kireek is right. We hope you'll be okay.

You may confide in us, but be careful because ragol.co.uk is a still a public forum so, technically, for example, your dog may still read your topic and feel hurt that you, who he cares about so much, think he's "getting close to the end of his career", because he may still think he's youthful and fighting-fit even when in reality he isn't.

[Lance813]

Damn Jimbo,

I sorry man, I am sure that you dog will be fine. Hell, I have an 18 year old cat! As for your friend I am sorry that she has recieved such bad news. You, meh, you'll be fine. I pray that you are not infertile though, I will be if i don't lay off the Mountain Dew...

[Jimbo1990]

Two points today, I got my results back and i AM fertile so i can have kids which is a relief, and my friend will be starting her treatment very soon so hopefully things will work out.

[K_I_R_E_E_K]

All i know is that before the kemo will only start once she becomes strong, so healthy food and rest is absolutely necessary, she will need all the strenght against the kemo.

Congrats Jimbo, you can be a father after all.

[Lance813]

Phew, I was holding my breath for you. Congrats man.