14-03-2005, 09:37 PM
I think that one should not choose a friend just so that they can have someone to confide in. They should also be able to learn something from their friends. It can't merely be one-sided. Like the old saying goes, "Friends should have all things in common." You should not push your expectations onto a friend. They are an entirely different person and your/their success depends only on themselves. You are there to try to help/teach and to receive/learn from them. I personally do not lead my group of friends (we have no real leader as we are all self-sufficient). However I do lead multiple other groups who all look up to me. It is just something that you have to realize. You can only help, you can not make them succeed.
PSO characters
G2- lvl 99 Greenill - RAmar
Zero- lvl 114 Redria - HUcast
Wren - lvl 82 Skyly - FOnewm
Awesome Items I have: Mostly just my fully ground Red Saber.
Quote of the Moment: "Life is indeed darkness save when there is urge, and all urge is blind save when there is knowledge, and all knowledge is vain save when there is work, and all work is empty save when there is love." - Gibran, Kahlil
G2- lvl 99 Greenill - RAmar
Zero- lvl 114 Redria - HUcast
Wren - lvl 82 Skyly - FOnewm
Awesome Items I have: Mostly just my fully ground Red Saber.
Quote of the Moment: "Life is indeed darkness save when there is urge, and all urge is blind save when there is knowledge, and all knowledge is vain save when there is work, and all work is empty save when there is love." - Gibran, Kahlil