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[Lionheart]

Omar...I understand Banshee jumped the gun a bit and got defensive over the wrong idea. I immediately saw that you were referring to me and I told her what you meant, so yes she acted hastily. HOWEVER, that is still no way to talk to a girl, though you are speaking straight logic (with little to no sarcasm or insults involved), to be so blunt to a woman is rather...lacking in chivalry. If she was no matter to you, then you shouldn't even pursue the argument, ignore her PMs and/or posts, she will be gone soon as you said, but regardless of what she does you must always remember to show a woman respect.

[Omar]

That is a sexist opinion you have there in my opinion Lionheart.

I will show the same respect online to both genders. In real life, I tend to behave differently towards girls, but online it is different.

I could easily have joined these forums pretending to be a girl and would have received a much more positive attitude from some of the teenage males here. If I believe someone to be wrong then I will usually say something. For example:

Doesn't look like a lengthy post either.. only like a few lines...

Few=Being more than one but indefinitely small in number (usually 3-4)
Banshee's post: 8 lines.

If she was no matter to you, then you shouldn't even pursue the argument, ignore her PMs and/or posts

My original reference to her was made so I could post in this thread without being completely off-topic. Rather than posting my reason for not missing banshee or orphen, I just said how I felt, without saying anything that may begin an argument. When somebody wrongly depicts me in a negative light in a public place, I won't simply ignore it for the obvious reasons.
Unless it is Trevman calling me names, because that makes me smile :wacko:

[Ivan]

Ok, it seems all these goodbyes are causing flames.

I must say I feel quite a pitty for you lot. Fighting over a game...making mistakes. Quite frankly I'm tired of it all. All you 4 (Banshee, orphen, lionheart, and omar) did was argue. And you wounder why lewis and I got all moody. I seriously feel bad for banshee for having to take all the crap I've heard shes gotten.

The point is everyone needs to stop flaming now or I will lock this topic. This topic wasn't made for people to flame anyone. Either you're saying good bye to banshee or not. Which reminds me. Bye Banshee (Will you be back maybe for PSOU? I might get FF11 anyways, but I dunno.)

[Banshee]

Yeah, I'm most definately going to get PSOU. Maybe I'll see you around on FFXI :b I'll still be around on the forums just not as often.. just two more days and I'm 16 wee.. I won't actually get FFXI until about Saturday and we just ordered the video card today (an ATI 9600) so I dunno when that is coming in.. my PSO HL won't expire until August 2nd so I still have a bit to do stuff..

[darkice]

stop it stop it plz
if people want to turn there backs on this game then fine it aint worth fightin em over it i was once fooled by squaresoft but since ff10 came out i woke up the story line nothin to ff7 the game as a whole waste of time and way to easy ff11 sorry but no thx the ff games have gotten soft pso is a real challenge an on going one play with freinds forget the hackers i am on so soon may even be this weekend :S can't wait i will be arranging some games with peeps i have met on this legit only i may have stopped playing recently but am gonna be back on form for my cube version debut online any one who would like to play with me plz don't hesitate askin non legit don't bother thx and if peeps who leave will come back for universe then its okay by me

[Lionheart]

Ivan is right, HOWEVER, I want to clear the air on some things.
1) My opinion isn't sexist, it's called chivalry (or being a gentleman) Omar. I will gladly tell a girl when she is wrong just like everybody else but there's no need to be rude for no reason. You quoted her about using the word "few" to describe a post that was 8 lines long. Of course by its official defintion, that was the wrong word to use, but talk about getting involved in stupid semantics, people use "few" to describe a huge amount of things sometimes.

2) Yet again I'll bring up, why do you bother to pursue arguments Omar, you just said yourself you just "Wanted to post here but wanted to be on topic". Let me tell you something, DON'T BOTHER POSTING IF IT'S GONNA CAUSE PROBLEMS. Your comments were mean-hearted and unnecessary and I know you knew damn well that they would only irritate us (good work by the way). You don't like her so keep it to yourself, she's gonna be gone soon, you did NOT need to voice your opinion in this post.

3) Ivan, the 4 of us don't argue, the 3 of us (me, Orphen, and Banshee) argue with Omar so it's not like the 4 of us have little skirmishes everywhere.

I bothered to post all this because it involves numerous people, if it was just one offender then I would've done this the right way (through PM). This thread IS meant as a goodbye thread to banshee however, I would like this settled here and now so it doesn't spread anymore. I'm honestly sick of Omar intentionally trying to piss us off and nobody else seems to understand that, he hurts Banshee and thoroughly pisses off me and Orphen, and he does it on purpose. I guess you aren't familiar with the saying "If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything" are you Omar? Well guess what, you'd best familiarize yourself with it (and abide by it) real fast or there will be hell to pay, I'm officially pissed now and things will not be fun if you don't get your s**t together. You and Banshee may have had some issues that I am not aware of but I'm basing my opinion of you on how I've seen you treat other members. Frankly, this thread was supposed to be an emotional thread, no attacks should've been made here, that's precisely why I'm getting this mad, it's almost as if you wanted her to leave on a bad note. I'm done ranting but I want to hear some opinions on this and, Omar, I would like you to explain why it is you have such a problem with the three of us, have some balls, say it right here in the open, I'm awaiting your reply...