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[Faulkie]

A bit late (sorry dude) but I think that if you love her, by all means you should get her back. But just keep this in mind - if she says no, leave it at that. Don't show you're upset or she might take you back for sympathy, and that won't work out...

As for how to bring it up, maybe you could ask her why you split up in the first place, and then bring it up there...

My advice isn't great though, being a complete moron with girls... that's what an all boys school does to ya...

[Ashinator]

I h8 it wen girls donttel ya the truth...thats y i have a real good talk with me gf bout it...cos she does it to me. Yesterday I went to the cinemas with her (who i havent seen in ova a month because of her exams) and her 2 m8s. Wen we went and sat down I got left seperated from Amy and so she was gona move to sit nxt to me but one her friends, Truvena, said if she moved then she will go hme. So this pissed Amy off but Amy wudnt tell me y she was pissed off...I had to grill it out of her....d/w her other m8, Geoff, is a good m8 of mine and he wud do nething to make sure me and Amy are happy together...so the moral is a relationship shud neva start unless u knw it wud b bound with truth...cos without it ur relationship wont wrk. Thats wot I told Amy and now she is doin her best to b beta cos she luvs me to bits and doesnt want us to break up. If ur dating a girl and u see that they seem the type to hold things bck....then forget it....they arent worth it.

Edit: I'm off out now to Swansea with me Amy cos she just asked me to go along!!!!!

[Faulkie]

Yeah, that's true as well...

[zero132132]

I've done a lot of thinking since last night (didn't sleep much) and I realized that the longer I wait the worse my chances are. So today I am going to take this angle. Every good thing in life deserves a second chance and I know she may not think so, but the reason that she ended up thinking of me as a friend was because there was no affection there to think otherwise (my fault entirely). The reason that there was no affection there was because I didn't want to move forward without her parents knowing that we were at least going out and I've finally realized that if you truly love someone, you can't let anything get in your way. Tell me what you think in less then an hour. I'm not going to be back on until it's all done.

[Faulkie]

Oh man, I missed you. I'm sorry, just good luck ok?

If it didn't go too well, just look on the bright side, ok?

[pink]

It may or may not work out... it's kinda random sometimes. But if it doesn't then use that over used saying... "There are plenty of fish in the sea" and move on.

[Teh EkwEE]

You know what's funny? Now that we're broken up, I notice all the couples/love stuff in the media/radio/movies/paper. It kind of gets annoying.

I have a crazy question...
I have to know what you guys think before I go through with this but... should I even try and get her back?

Don't even attempt it......She broke up with you so yeah....


Pink: We should have a discussion on WoT sometimes, seems you know most of the stuff anyway...


Back on topic: Why get her back? I wouldn't do it....unless she was hot, but that's me...

[Faulkie]

No offence, but I don't think whether or not she's hot really matters to this guy...

[whiteninja]

And it really shouldn't matter. Too many guys just care about looks, the majority of the time you spend with a girl will be talking with her, not making out (or farther), so personality ought to matter more than looks..... but I've never actually had a girlfriend, so I'll shut up.

Well, this is kind of late, but I hope you had good luck Zero.

[zero132132]

I was out all day and never got around to it. Just didn't want to do it unless I was home so I'm going to call after dinner and in about an hour I should have results.

Edit: Dun dun dun dun. The moment you have all been waiting for... I tried and... it isn't going to work. Oddly enough I feel better about this then I have in the past few days. It's over and done... no more worrying about it. And now that it's completely done I can finally say that she played games with me. It wasn't fair but as the old saying goes, "All's fair in love and war." So... while one chapter of my life comes to a close, another opens.

Thanks for all of the support guys through my ordeal. This is a wonderful forum full of caring, intelligent people that I am proud to say I am a member of.