I'm Not Okay (I Promise)

[Ivan]

^ Anyone get it? ^ ^_^;

Uh...hmmmm, yeah I got a question for anyone experienced with relationships. There's this girl at school. It's as if shes my clone. Likes the music that I do, likes moshing out at concerts....total green day freak...plays guitar...fun to be around...you get the idea. Well of course you know what's coming she has a boyfriend. What annoys me more yet has nothing to do with this is the guys french. Sounds cheesy I know. (Cheese....french....hahaha) Well, out of the 2 years we've known each other (and that I liked her) it's been a "Hi" or "Hey'd you hear about the new CD?" other times it's been chatting on AOL about random things. She gave me her cell phone number, and I've been meaning to ask her if she wanted to come to my band's concert this summer (Dunno if that'd be a good move), I was telling her about a concert coming to town and was going to take her, she seemed excited.

My main question is does she like me or have any feelings for me at all? I'd prefer to hear from anyone spoken in Anjiru's thread. As they could probobly see I'm not in it for sex. I've been really lonesome lately and I'm not as emotionally energaetic. But I guess that's horomones for you isn't it? Heh, I just want someone to be with and hang out with, and spend time with, and...yeah all that mushy stuff...I know I must seem commited for my age as I'm technically 14...

I hope I've said enough for anyone to help me...

[icedragon90909]

i dont have any advice but i just have 1 thing to complament you. the complament is- good for you for not being in it only for sex

[Lee-yoshi]

Seems as if we need a relationship forum

From what i've read there sounds like she likes you, especially if she's given you her mobily number. Text her, see if she wants to go, that way you dont have to hum and arr over the phone if you speak to her and makes you seem much more cooler

BTW whats this about a french guy?! How'd that happen? :S

[Ivan]

I dunno (Talks like butt-head: ) Ehh...he's a dumbass eheheh.

I've been hovering over posting this, but after the huge thread about anjiru I worked up enough "courage" to post it. I'm aware this ain't a love line. She doesn't have text messaging her parents are cheap like mine. I'm just hoping for her to get on aol tonight.

[Lee-yoshi]

But you said she gave you her cell phone number? What kinda phone doesnt have text messaging?

Ah well AOL is good enough!

[whiteninja]

It's as if shes my clone.

GAH! It's that episode of Seinfeld in real life!

Well, I'd be careful about asking her out (because she's already seeing someone), but I'd give it a shot.

[Double Edge]

Ask her to your concert. It's definitely a bold move, but it should do at least one of two things:

• Make her realise that you are interested in her
  
  OR
  
  
  
• Help you guys to 'bond', and hopefully "hit if off".
  

Who knows; with a little bit of luck she may dump her Frenchie on the side of the road for someone like her, you. ^_^

[Ivan]

I was going to ask her out....not yet at least because of her boyfriend.

[Double Edge]

The main problem with asking someone out and being rejected (specifically when he/she is with another person), is that yours and his/her relationship could easily become more complicated and awkward afterward.

[Ivan]

Hmmm...she's coming to the concert...dunno what that could mean though.