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I'm Not Okay (I Promise) - Kashima - 21-04-2005
ive said it once and ill say it again there is no great gain without first the prospect of great loss. Firstly these are my views on the whole situation. She has a boyfriend normally i say it is dishonorable to seek out a person who is already in a relationship i dont believe in treading on other peoples territories. However if you notice that shes not happy or rather that they are not moving forward in terms of a couple then thats a greenlight to move in and go for the kill. She obviously enjoys your company as you two are able to easily contact one another by means of information shes given you . Now heres the tricky part you two are close friends which means by trying to move forward you could possibly ruin a good friendship but if it goes over well like it seems to be it should only mean very good things for the two of you. Im in class now and i should be working so i cant put into words everything im thinking so i should have more advice later hope this small bit helps
I'm Not Okay (I Promise) - zero132132 - 21-04-2005
That was what I was trying to demonstrate with my example of what happened to me. I moved ahead and lost a friend for a little while but if I had never tried I would be far less happy than I was.
I'm Not Okay (I Promise) - God-IX - 21-04-2005
As I said before...just keep getting closer..I agree with Kashima, she has a boyfriend, so i wouldn't....but as Kashima said...if she isnt happy..then just go for it...
I'm Not Okay (I Promise) - Ivan - 21-04-2005
They went out for a week before, plus she had to think about going back out with him when he asked her out again. So what does that tell you? I'm just either waiting for when they break up. As of now I'm just a floating duck. (if you will...)
I'm Not Okay (I Promise) - God-IX - 21-04-2005
Well, Ivan, it seems like all you ahve to do is wait for break up then...
I'm Not Okay (I Promise) - zero132132 - 21-04-2005
Sounds as if that is the case. Just stay close and wait for the right time (when they break up).
I'm Not Okay (I Promise) - Kashima - 22-04-2005
i say if shes not happy move in before someone else unexpected does never can be sure that youre the only one interested
I'm Not Okay (I Promise) - Shadamoo - 23-04-2005
Ivan Wrote:My main question is does she like me or have any feelings for me at all? I'd prefer to hear from anyone spoken in Anjiru's thread. As they could probobly see I'm not in it for sex. I've been really lonesome lately and I'm not as emotionally energaetic. But I guess that's horomones for you isn't it? Heh, I just want someone to be with and hang out with, and spend time with, and...yeah all that mushy stuff...I know I must seem commited for my age as I'm technically 14...Heh, you seem to be in same position as me in relationship ways.
I hope I've said enough for anyone to help me...
I like this girl, she seems to be really...close to me sort of in a friend way.
She doesnt have a boyfriend, doesnt like same music as me...but is interested in the fact that I write music, and wants to help me write it and stuff.
I mean, I asked her out, but she said she only wanted me as the friend I am to her now...but I dont believe her.
Anyway, onto solving your prob here Ivan.
I believe you should ask her to this concert, and see if she enjoys it. If she does, try and play for her specially (that is a cheesy thing to do, but it works sometimes!).
I reckon she does like you, but it will probably end up you 2 being very good friends...