I Need Serious Help

[God-IX]

*crys and walks off*

Why me??

[icedragon90909]

oi ok ok ok ok ill erase the suicide thing shesh! and sry if i affended anyone here and acualy its now 84.9% of ppl thanks to mentavior for joining . And why do u all help homar and not me i need probly more help! i havent had a post for 3 days and he gets like 3 a day.... and so what if im going thew puberdy what u going 2 do about it... im scared what comes next...!

[Double Edge]

In all honesty, I didn't read all of the replies here. But I need to say something, Sesshomaru, nothing is worth killing yourself over. Nothing. And we're always here to support you.

EDIT: I say this in response to Post #1. That's all. *shrug*

[icedragon90909]

yep he is wright but dude seriously b4 posting read all da replies..

[Double Edge]

yep he is wright but dude seriously b4 posting read all da replies..

Yes, sir. :happy: Actually, I do..always, this is just one case.

[whiteninja]

DE, Sesshomaru said he wasn't near killing himself over it. Not reading the replies.... tsk, tsk, DE...

I believe in God, Jesus, Heaven, Hell, etc., Teh EkwEE. So don't go insulting other's religions. Just because you don't like it, you shouldn't go calling it ludicrous. icedragon's post was inappropriate, I'll give you that, but so was yours. The world sucks because people made it suck; God gave us all free will, and if the majority of the world wants there to be war, hate, etc. so be it. God meets you halfway.

BACK TO TOPIC: You sent a mean email, Sess? Not to make you feel guilty, but that was probably unneeded. You ought to apoligize for whatever you did to offend her, and then just get on with your life.

[Sesshomaru]

BACK TO TOPIC: You sent a mean email, Sess? Not to make you feel guilty, but that was probably unneeded. You ought to apoligize for whatever you did to offend her, and then just get on with your life.

I'm going to apologize to her, just not until after this weekend at least.....shes gone to her friend's house....and her friend knows everything that happened and shes going to give the girl i like a nice talk about the whole thing........don't worry about me anymore.....all I feel now is guilt......guilt for sending her that email in the first place.......but was the right thing to do at the time.....she kept making everything seem less.......important....made me....feel less important to her.......things will hopefully change soon.......

[NetNomad]

Erm, I'm not quite sure where the email comes into this, and why SHE is mad at YOU now... but I'll wing it. At least this time I can help a little (as opposed to the last suicide/depression thread I saw here that was already over with).

I can't say I'm an expert on romance - quite the opposite actually (don't ask). I don't have experience with being seriously depressed, either, although I try my best to put myself in someone's position and understand them... IMO I'm rather good at it (and I don't brag much). I DO have experience dealing with people like you however... two people who mentioned suicide at least once, and one who was just having other severe problems... at any rate, they're fine now to the best of my knowledge (and I'll tell you all the truest thing about these conversations: you have to choose your words EXTREMELY carefully).

What springs to mind here, is selective listening. People are going to tell you a lot of different things if you tell them you're depressed... some good, some not so good (beware religious fanatics - and no, I'm not totally against religion or religous people, it's just that I've seen many whose replies have little or no real value; let's face it, when you're that depressed the last thing you want to believe in is an almighty, benevolent God, because it seems like the ultimate joke). If at this point you really believe you can make up with your former girlfirend, then more power to you... although after a line like that, personally, my trust in her would be all but shattered... at any rate, if by chance you get back together and then break up again, I would suggest that you not listen to her anymore.

I'm sorry to be unable to put it any less bluntly; sometimes you have to reach for those defense mechanisms and take ten, just to clear your mind so you can think rationally. Again, I have no experience, but my theory is that truly depressed or suicidal people tend to get that way because they allow their feelings to guide all their decisions. "Follow your heart/gut/spirit" only works to an extent - at some point you have to plant your feet and let your logical mind take control, because that's usually how you do your best thinking. It's like being swept up in a shallow stream - you can let youself turn end over end as it carries you along, or you can dig in your feet and choose your direction from there.

Hope that helps a little. :ermm:

[Teh EkwEE]

DE, Sesshomaru said he wasn't near killing himself over it. Not reading the replies.... tsk, tsk, DE...

I believe in God, Jesus, Heaven, Hell, etc., Teh EkwEE. So don't go insulting other's religions. Just because you don't like it, you shouldn't go calling it ludicrous. icedragon's post was inappropriate, I'll give you that, but so was yours. The world sucks because people made it suck; God gave us all free will, and if the majority of the world wants there to be war, hate, etc. so be it. God meets you halfway.

BACK TO TOPIC: You sent a mean email, Sess? Not to make you feel guilty, but that was probably unneeded. You ought to apoligize for whatever you did to offend her, and then just get on with your life.

Chill Ninja, while I won't change my views, I know it was uncalled for. But his comment was completely pointless and made me mad. You admitted as much yourself.........so just chill.....

As for Sesshomaru, how are you feeling? If you're still feeling down, try changing your music. Once when I was depressed I did that and it worked wonders. Try listening to a bit of jazz or bebop, that usually lifts my spirits. A lil' Duke Elington never hurt anyone...

Nomad sometimes people need things but bluntly, to clear them of any delusions they may be having. And that was what my post about God was more or less about is exactly what you said. You explained it beautifully...

[icedragon90909]

ya your right dude i shouldn't have posted that but i deleated it.