I need to talk to someone... Or i will go crazy...

[Lokin Modar]

Sunday, i was studying and noticed that my dad was different. In the early evening, i went to the backyard of my house and saw my dad crying, and my mom comforting him. I stood near him, gave him a hug and cried too. He said that he no longer have money to pay the rent and to buy food... I thought, dear God, tha seme thing that happened twice in our lives is happening again... This can't be true... My father is looking so hard for a job, but he is unemployed for an year now... I got so sad. I don't know what to do... My family is alone in this world... It's jus us 7 trying to live happily. My relatives ignore us... If only my dad could fin a job, everything would be different... I guess that the only thing that lasts for us is to pray for a miracle from God.

[Kitsadoodles]

I think it is beautiful how well you and your family stick together. not to sound cheesy or anything, but I really do believe that anything is possible if you share the same love as you now do, and always stay together. if you all work on finding a job, or some way to make some money, then you will definitely be okay. and you 7, you guys are gonna make it through if you all work hard, together! sorry, I'm not too helpful at this kind of thing, but just remember that whatever happens, you guys are still a family that loves each other very much, and there is always something you can do to keep it that way!

[NthoozD]

I think it is beautiful how well you and your family stick together. not to sound cheesy or anything, but I really do believe that anything is possible if you share the same love as you now do, and always stay together. if you all work on finding a job, or some way to make some money, then you will definitely be okay. and you 7, you guys are gonna make it through if you all work hard, together! sorry, I'm not too helpful at this kind of thing, but just remember that whatever happens, you guys are still a family that loves each other very much, and there is always something you can do to keep it that way!

Kitsadoodles, that was some very good advice its gonna be hard to add to that. Lokin, don't stress yourself for things that are beyond your control, the only thing you can do right now is what you've been doing, and worrying about it only makes things worse. Now I don't know how to give family advice seeing how I have family problems of my own, but I can say this, good things happen for those who wait. And looking for your father a job is the best thing I can say you should do right now. But know this, when this storm is over life will just be that much sweeter when you don't have to worry about it.

[Kitsadoodles]

from what I hear, your family is very much supported by you; this must mean that you are quite an amazing person, which I can say is true from what I know about you. you have been supporting your family for so long, and I'm sure they are very grateful. you were the one that kept the family together. I think its time you pass that job onto someone else! you will always be a part of their lives, whether you are near or far from home. maybe if they pitch in, they won't need such a huge amount of work from you, and you can go live your dreams! and also, who says you can't support your family from far away? I mean, I probably have no knowledge about the business and economy world, so I could definitely be wrong. if you go to live your life in sucess, won't you be helping them too, no matter how hard it may be? if they were to work too, you may not be so depended on, but you can always help. whatever you do, never stop caring like you always have, and never lose faith in you or your family.

[Phantom_RAcast]

Sunday, i was studying and noticed that my dad was different. In the early evening, i went to the backyard of my house and saw my dad crying, and my mom comforting him. I stood near him, gave him a hug and cried too. He said that he no longer have money to pay the rent and to buy food... I thought, dear God, tha seme thing that happened twice in our lives is happening again... This can't be true... My father is looking so hard for a job, but he is unemployed for an year now... I got so sad. I don't know what to do... My family is alone in this world... It's jus us 7 trying to live happily. My relatives ignore us... If only my dad could fin a job, everything would be different... I guess that the only thing that lasts for us is to pray for a miracle from God.

Are you guys on wellfare? if not I suggest you try to get on it. You also may want to consider food stamps so you guys can eat.

[Lokin Modar]

Down here in Brazil we don't have a welfare state... We can only count on ourselves when it comes to make money... No wonder the crime rate here is to high...

I would like to thank every one that commented my message... I feel much better because of your kind words. It's good to know that i can talk a little about my problems without fear... Thanks a lot, ppl. I can say you live in my heart!

[NthoozD]

No Problem

[Kitsadoodles]

and I can SO say that you live in my heart, because I was truly touched by all of your stories. I really love to help you, and I'm sure that I can say for pretty much everyone here that we are always there for you. no matter what you need to talk about, we'll talk about it! I'm really happy that we could all help you!

[TheMaster375]

You know what, I have 1 word of advice for you, Lokin Modar. BIBLE. Go get one and read it. 1 hour a day. Your family is alot like mine right now. We too are broke and barely any money for food or rent. But you know, it's not scary at all. When me and my family used to live in America, we were broke then too, but it was scary for all of us. But now that we know God, it's not scary because we know that He is with us all the time. Don't worry about it. Just continue in prayer. If you don't have a Bible, then go to http://www.bible.com and read Matthew 6:25-34. I'm sure that it will help you and answer any questions you have. Good luck and you'll be in my prayers. And if you have any questions at all about what you're reading, then just PM me. I'll gladly help you.

[Lokin Modar]

You know what, I have 1 word of advice for you, Lokin Modar. BIBLE. Go get one and read it. 1 hour a day. Your family is alot like mine right now. We too are broke and barely any money for food or rent. But you know, it's not scary at all. When me and my family used to live in America, we were broke then too, but it was scary for all of us. But now that we know God, it's not scary because we know that He is with us all the time. Don't worry about it. Just continue in prayer. If you don't have a Bible, then go to http://www.bible.com and read Matthew 6:25-34. I'm sure that it will help you and answer any questions you have. Good luck and you'll be in my prayers. And if you have any questions at all about what you're reading, then just PM me. I'll gladly help you.

Mateus 6:25 Por isso vos digo: Não estejais ansiosos quanto à vossa vida, pelo que haveis de comer, ou pelo que haveis de beber; nem, quanto ao vosso corpo, pelo que haveis de vestir. Não é a vida mais do que o alimento, e o corpo mais do que o vestuário?
Mateus 6:26 Olhai para as aves do céu, que não semeiam, nem ceifam, nem ajuntam em celeiros; e vosso Pai celestial as alimenta. Não valeis vós muito mais do que elas?
Mateus 6:27 Ora, qual de vós, por mais ansioso que esteja, pode acrescentar um côvado à sua estatura?
Mateus 6:28 E pelo que haveis de vestir, por que andais ansiosos? Olhai para os lírios do campo, como crescem; não trabalham nem fiam;
Mateus 6:29 contudo vos digo que nem mesmo Salomão em toda a sua glória se vestiu como um deles.
Mateus 6:30 Pois, se Deus assim veste a erva do campo, que hoje existe e amanhã é lançada no forno, quanto mais a vós, homens de pouca fé?
Mateus 6:31 Portanto, não vos inquieteis, dizendo: Que havemos de comer? ou: Que havemos de beber? ou: Com que nos havemos de vestir?
Mateus 6:32 (Pois a todas estas coisas os gentios procuram.) Porque vosso Pai celestial sabe que precisais de tudo isso.
Mateus 6:33 Mas buscai primeiro o seu reino e a sua justiça, e todas estas coisas vos serão acrescentadas.
Mateus 6:34 Não vos inquieteis, pois, pelo dia de amanhã; porque o dia de amanhã cuidará de si mesmo. Basta a cada dia o seu mal.

It is all true, my friend... Thx for the tip. And i1m praying for all of you too. Its hard not to fall in despair... But i1m trying. Each tear that comes out of my eyes is a prayer... I pray for all of us. For me, for my family, for you, my friends... I'm doing a 63 day prayer. I'm almost at the end... I asked God for a miracle, and I know i'll get it... Almost an year ago i was thinking about suicide, because i'm gay, and i feared my family was going to abandon me when i tell them. Then God gave the signs i needed, and i'm here still... My family accepts me as i am... I have a great boyfriend who waits patiently for me 2500 km away... I'm a blessed person... I just can't see the solution now, but i'll figure it out. I'll be happy... I must!